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Parent Focus: Making Work Part of the Plan

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    Parent Focus: Making Work Part of the Plan

    Get Everybody Thinking About Work

    Expectations are a key. If your child, you, and his or her support network all have work as the goal, everybody will work harder to make it happen.

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    Help your child start thinking about work:

    • DB101’s Finding the Right Job for You article can help your child think about what type of work he or she might like.
    • Help your child find a mentor or role model. This person can help with advice and support that can make work more realistic.
    • Give your child chores. They teach your child skills and to assume responsibility.
    • Get your child involved in the community. Social experiences, summer camps, volunteer projects, community education classes, and internships all teach aspects of what work is like and let your child meet more people who might help with work in the future.
    • Encourage your child to enjoy hobbies. Activities like sewing, cooking, woodworking, or anything else can teach skills, enrich life, create job possibilities, and help develop relationships that may lead to work.
    • Introduce your child to the local IowaWORKS office and ask about their Youth and Young Adult Services.
    Help your child gain self-confidence and build independence skills

    It’s hard to teach a child to make decisions and take actions independently. At age 14, your child will not be making every decision, but as your child gets older, graduates high school, and reaches age 18, he or she needs to be ready to handle the broader world. Knowing how to make decisions and take action are key skills for personal and work success. Starting early with small steps will build future success.

    Learn more about the child-parent relationship in DB101’s Start Planning Now article.

    Make Work a Part of Your Child’s Individualized Education Program (IEP)

    If your child is still in middle school or high school, he or she probably has an Individualized Education Program (IEP). Make sure that your child’s IEP team knows that your child’s long-term objective as an adult is work and make it a part of the IEP Transition Plan. For example, the IEP could increase its focus on developing work skills, such as reading with understanding, using technology, and having interest-based work experiences.

    Connect with Vocational Rehabilitation (VR) Services

    If your child is 14 to 21 years old, he or she can get Pre-Employment Transition Services (Pre-ETS) from Vocational Rehabilitation (VR) Services to help prepare for work, college or university, or other options after high school. Learn more about Pre-ETS programs.

    VR works with Iowa school districts to provide services to high school students through contracting agencies. Your Local School Plan explains who provides transition services in your area, and VR offers a list of VR high school contacts.

    After your child gets that first job

    It can be scary when your child actually reaches the goal of finding a job. Read DB101’s Working article with your child, so that you can both learn more about how to make a first job successful.

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